Visual appearance is important to the
French. No effort is too great to make
things look good: witness the food shops
in even the poorest neighbourhoods of a
city, always sparkling clean and
beautifully displayed. The people, too,
take pride in looking neat and sharp;
they inspect others and expect to be
looked at. Life is theatre, lived much
more in the public eye - especially in
the warm Mediterranean south - than in
Anglo-Saxon societies. And for the
visitor it's a free and entertaining
spectacle.
The France are extremely courteous
with each other - it's not unusual for
someone entering a restaurant to say "Good
evening" to the entire company - and
rather formal in their manners. At the
same time, if they want something, they
may be quite direct in ways that are
disconcerting for Anglo-Saxons brought
up in the belief that it's improper to
state clearly what you mean or feel. If
you are feeling self-conscious about
coping with the language, this can seem
like rudeness; it isn't. If you observe
the formalities and make an effort to
communicate, you'll find the French as
friendly and interested as anyone else.
As for their reputed arrogance, the
French are certainly proud of their
culture, some-thing that is reinforced
by the education system. Artists and
thinkers are held in high esteem in
France and their opinions are listened
to. Even prime ministers tend to be
literate, and are often accomplished
authors. But in a world dominated by
commercial values and, in addition, the
English language, the French (not
unnaturally, for their language was once
the lingua franca of the educated)
feel this culture is under threat.